There are quite a few ECP (Elizabeth Clements Photography) clients who have experienced the loss of a child. It is quite humbling to be asked to find ways to include those babies in family sessions, and I am honored to do it. I posted a couple months ago about doing a rainbow baby session for one of my families. Another client brought in a Molly Bear to a studio session, which is a weighted bear to help families cope with infant loss (check out their website to read more about the nonprofit). There are a lot of different options for this type of session.
Last week, a client brought in a framed photo of their precious firstborn baby girl, Olivia, that they lost. They have started talking about her to their 7 month old son, so their hope was to capture an image of him with Olivia’s photo and a whole family image as well. He was fascinated by the photo and cooperated well, as you’ll see below! It is one of those things that honestly a lot of us may not think about, though– how to honor loss when your family grows. It is a good reminder to me (and I hope to you) that we are all walking different paths, some of which can be quite lonely, and a little bit of grace and kindness goes a long way. What I hear over and over is that these friends desperately want their babies to be remembered. Do not be afraid to mention their child’s name. To a mama, that is life. Be present. Listen. Pray for them. Help them honor their baby and show them that you see the value in that life, too.